You can be dating six or eight people at a time, getting to know each of them.
So it's time to realize that you don't have to make up your mind about someone you meet on date number one.
You don't have to make a decision on any particular number date.
Here is how: Say no to the serious stuff If he asks you to meet his family, or to be there the day he wakes up from surgery, you may have to pass. Tell him you hope the surgery goes well, but that you think at this point it’s more appropriate for his best friend or family to be there.
Anything that is going to bond you even more, when you’re not sure you want to be bonded — don’t do it.
They go out with whoever happens to cross their path and then don't look any further.