But sometimes when I pass through the neighborhood where my substitute boyfriend and I used to drink too much white wine together and go to bad romantic comedies together and get weird couples massages, I get a little wistful.
And even though we’re still friends, what I can’t bring myself to ask him is: How do you know what to eat for dinner without me?
This surprised no one more than me, but after my boyfriend and I had talked through my other major relationships, the way you always do with someone as things get serious, I felt so guilty excluding this one that I had to down a bottle or so of wine to make myself explain it to my new guy.
Here, a few other things I wish I’d known before getting entangled in this messy kind of coupling: .
There is a paid membership (from 15) that gives you access to all the fancy features and unlimited messaging.